Just a short and sweet post on leading with your heart’s desire and a can-do attitude.
Earlier this year I agreed to run a half marathon. I’ve never run this distance before and was puzzling over how I would integrate the long training runs into my schedule. Then, soon after, I made another new commitment to volunteer at my daughter’s school. I started to get concerned about my increasing activities.
Using my best project management skills, I pored over my schedule mapping out my commitments versus the hours in the day and making sure there was some time for relaxation and recreation.
It didn’t look good. Then I stopped. I stopped trying to figure it all out. I stopped trying to reassure myself that I would have enough time. I stopped thinking it through so thoroughly and I just did it.
I added the training runs to my calendar and the volunteer commitment too. Then I adopted a saying that seemed to capture my approach:
“Dunno how I’m going to get it done, but I will.”
This seemed to capture it all for me. My heart was saying, “Go for it! Do these things and the details will just have to be figured out along the way.”
I’m proud to report, so far so good.
- Did I do it all by myself? No way! I had the support of a loving family and the best running buddies in the world!
- Did I do it without fear? Absolutely not. I doubted and worried like a champion. Then I noticed. I noticed how I felt in my body when I said, “I can.” versus when I said, “I can’t.” I loved that feeling and I nurtured it.
- Did fear show up again? You bet it did. Now I’m using it as fuel for my fire, just like one of sheroes does.
Wishing you the joy of a can-do attitude and following your heart’s desire.